I’ve lived in Cirebon my whole life. The city may be small, and honestly, I haven’t explored every corner yet. But I do know a few spots that really hit the mark — whether you’re looking for a good meal, a cozy coffee, or a bit of heritage. So, if you happen to stop by Cirebon for 1–2 days, here are my personal recommendations. Bites & Meals 1. Nasi Jamblang Mang Dul Nasi Jamblang Mang Dul by Alfons Hartono If you’re Indonesian, you might think it’s just “ regular rice with common dishes .” And yes, many of my Cirebonese friends will say, “That’s so touristy.” But I’d still recommend it. The place is decent, especially if you’re new to Cirebon’s hot and humid weather . The price is a bit on the higher side but the taste and portion are worth it — truly one of Cirebon’s legendary and iconic meals. Here, you’ll enjoy rice wrapped in teak leaves , a tangy-spicy sambal , all sorts of fried dishes, Cirebon’s take on “ rendang ,” and a tasty perkedel (think Indonesian-style hash brow...
There’s nothing inherently wrong with chasing trends. After all, there’s always a reason why a certain piece or style becomes popular — and some are genuinely good. But as I followed trends over the years, I realized many of them didn’t really suit me — not just in style, but in lifestyle, body type, and climate. A lot of today’s fashion trends are rooted in Western aesthetics. That influence shaped how I dressed too, often unintentionally. I started limiting myself to color palettes or pieces that didn’t feel like me . I bought sweaters, cardigans, and tailored trousers — clothes that look great on Pinterest, but not so great when you live in a hot and humid city like mine. Especially if the materials aren’t breathable. Anything blended with polyester is basically a sauna. The result? Sweat. Smells. Discomfort. Eventually, I realized that chasing trends is a bit like chasing ego — or chasing wealth. It’s a loop of feeling like you’re almost there, but never quite. And if we depend on ...